Dating a codependent women
Women usually can do this with a female friend, but they seldom give unconditional love to the man they supposedly love.The man must perform in some way or live up to the image if he is to ever receive your love.As a woman, your conditioning in regard to your female persona or image is not as entrenched as a man false image of manhood.Entrenched male stereotypes prevent men from looking at their codependent behaviors.I told you at the beginning of this series of articles that it takes a stupid man to speak to women about how to avoid men who are no good for them.I no longer consider myself stupid, but that doesn't mean I don't remember all the stupid things I did.
He doesn't know he's an image, and he's totally unaware how his thoughts, experiences and images have shaped what he is today.
Just cut me some slack here and remember what I said about the word ‘stupid.' A stupid man does not know who he is.
He doesn't know why he is the way he is, and he can't figure out why he keeps committing the same mistakes over and over again all the while expecting different results.
Codependent people are classic image-makers because they have never experienced truly loving relationships.
Some of you probably fit the bill of a codependent person.
If they are not dealt with, they will ruin every relationship you have.